The Secret To Attracting Love Into Your Life


If You Want To Attract Love, Be A Loving Person — by Catherine Morgan

Did you ever notice that angry people tend to attract other angry people? That greedy people, enjoy the company of other greedy people? Just like we choose to associate with people in our lives that have similar interests as we do, we are also unconsciously choosing people that are putting out that same emotional “frequency” as we do.

So, who cares? Well, you should. That is; if you are interested in “attracting” people into your life that are kind, caring, and loving, and not angry, bitter, and hateful.

It’s all about awareness. If you are attracting negative people into your life, it is most likely that you are putting out negative “energy”, and you are most likely doing that because you are feeling negative “emotions”. If you are aware of that, you can work on putting out more positive energy, by choosing to feel more positive emotions. It’s really very simple.

Basically, perception is everything. Ten people will experience the same situation ten different ways. Not because it happened ten different ways, but because they perceived it in ten different ways. Just like the proverbial “glass is half ____”, what? What were you going to say? Full? Empty?

If we walk through life unconsciously, life will come to us the same way. But, if we choose to be conscious of our feelings and emotions, we can help attract the life we want. It isn’t an exact science. But, if you want to attract love into your life, be a loving person, have loving feeling, have loving emotions. Just by being conscious of your feelings and your emotions, you are altering the frequencies you are putting out into the world. So, think about it for a minute. What frequencies were you putting out today? Loving? Kind?

The good thing is, that we do control our perceptions. Not much else though, you know how it is, we always feel we have no control over our lives. Well, that is because we really don’t have any control over our lives. However, how we “perceive” our out of control lives, that we do have control over. Not too much of a consolation, you say? Except that we can decide if we are going to be a happy, loving person or an angry, bitter one. That’s a pretty big deal.

Once you decide what type of person you are going to choose to be, then you will know what type of person you will attract into your life. Just like the “frequencies” on a radio, if you want country music, you need to find that frequency. If you want Pop or Rock music, but you keep tuning into the frequency that plays country, well you are going to get _____. Right, country. Once you find the right “emotional” frequency, others with that frequency will be attracted to you.

So, if you want to attract love… need to be a loving person. Start by loving yourself, being grateful for the things you have. Once you can do that, start replacing angry or negative emotions, with positive loving emotions. Choose your reactions to life and work and family, in a positive loving way. When the “frequencies” you are putting out change, what you will attract to yourself will also change.

Just give it a try. It can’t hurt. So you were more loving and kind for a couple of days, no harm. But? What if there really is something to this crazy talk? What if you really can attract the love you have always wanted? You will never know, if you don’t give it a try.

Good Luck.

photo credit to Sergei Karpukhin/Reuters

4 comments for “The Secret To Attracting Love Into Your Life

  1. Gosia
    November 8, 2007 at 5:01 pm

    I totally agree with this article. I personally have just come out of a 6 year relationship…and have been single now for over a year in a half…My emotions and feelings towards life and people have changed for the better…open minded and open hearted…Truth is I have noticed the people that have been coming into my life and what a wonderful feeling and benefit it has been in the long run. To be honest one night I was wondering what it would be to find the one for me…and on a piece of paper right dot in the centre I wrote “Law of ATTRACTING the MAN of my DREAMS”…and around that I wrote what I was looking for, anything and everything there interests…qualities, characteristics…goofy time…Everything…Well I believed it and continue to do so…Truth is he appeared, as if he jumped from inside that piece of paper…We are getting to know one another at the moment and there is no label….but things are good…and I can’t complain. If you believe and love yourself…I believe anything is possible, and like the article says you will never know unless you try!!! Its a life ultering experience one you need to be patient about and allow timing to do what it’s meant too….
    Good Luck to you all!!!

    It’s amazing…yet so comforting to the soul when you realize its really in the palm of your hand and has been all along!

  2. November 8, 2007 at 11:24 pm

    Hi “Gosia”

    Thanks for sharing your experience, I hope you will be very happy.

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